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🔮🦇 FRIGHT NIGHT — A YBK HALLOWEEN 🦇🔮

A Young but Kinky BDSM Play Party | Ages 21–39 Only

Saturday, October 3, 2026
8:00 PM – 1:00 AM
📍 Private Venue — San Diego

Party Host for the Night -@AllisaurusWrex

The doors are locked. The lights are low. Something wicked has taken over YBK for the night🕯️

This October, Young but Kinky invites you into Fright Night, our Halloween BDSM play party where the haunted house comes alive after dark.

Ghosts, vampires, witches, demons, monsters, haunted dolls, creatures of the night, and everything lurking between are invited to step out of the shadows for an evening of BDSM, community, play, and deliciously spooky energy.

Wander through the darkness, find familiar faces or mysterious new ones, and explore what happens when the YBK dungeon gets a Halloween makeover.

🕸️ Get lost in the darkness.
🩸 Give in to temptation.
👻 Play with the things that haunt you.
🔮 You never know what may be waiting around the corner.

🎃 DRESS TO HAUNT

Halloween costumes are highly encouraged!

Come as your favorite nightmare, supernatural seductress, sinister creature, vampire, witch, demon, ghost, monster, haunted doll, or create something completely your own.

Kinky Halloween attire, fetishwear, spooky looks, and creative costumes are welcome. Just make sure your outfit still allows you to safely navigate and play in the space.

⛓️ THIS IS A BDSM PLAY PARTY

Fright Night is centered around BDSM, negotiated play, consent, education, and community.

This is NOT a sex party.

Our goal is to provide a safer environment where newer and experienced kinksters can socialize, negotiate scenes, explore their interests, and enjoy BDSM around others who understand the importance of consent and communication.

Whether you're planning a scene, watching from the sidelines, socializing with friends, or simply soaking up the atmosphere, there is no expectation or requirement to play.

🔐 ATTENDANCE REQUIREMENTS

YBK events are exclusively for adults ages 21–39.

To attend our private play parties, you must be fully vetted through Young but Kinky.

This generally includes:

• Attending a YBK Munch
• Completing YBK 101
• Completing our required vetting/check-in process
• Following all YBK consent, safety, and community expectations

If you haven't completed the process yet, check our YBK information and FAQs so you can prepare for a future party.

Being interested in the event does not guarantee admission.

❤️ CONSENT IS THE FOUNDATION

At YBK, consent comes before everything else.

Ask before touching anyone or their belongings.
Negotiate before play.
Respect safewords and boundaries immediately.
Do not interrupt or join scenes without permission.
Do not assume flirting, clothing, nudity, previous play, or someone's relationship status equals consent.

Consent can be withdrawn at any time.

Our volunteers and event staff are available throughout the night if you have questions, need assistance, or need help addressing a concern.

🕯️ ENTER IF YOU DARE...

Somewhere beyond the doorway, the music is playing, the dungeon is waiting, and the creatures have already begun to stir.

Come dressed for the darkness.

Bring your imagination.

Bring your best Halloween energy.

And remember...

Every hallway has a secret.
Every room has its own story.
And you never quite know who—or what—you'll encounter next.

👻 Welcome to FRIGHT NIGHT.

Stay if you can handle the haunt. 🦇

🔥 YBK Play Party — San Diego 🔥

Looking to explore your BDSM interests in a safer, consensual-foward, community-focused environment for adults ages 21–39?

Step into an evening of BDSM exploration, connection, kinky education, and intense indulgence with Young but Kinky in San Diego. 🖤

Whether you're newer to BDSM or already have experience, our parties are designed to give vetted members a space to explore while keeping consent, communication, negotiation, safety, and ethical play at the center of the night.

Please remember: This is a BDSM play party — NOT a sex party.

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🔐 You Must Be Vetted to Attend

YBK is a private, vetted community for adults ages 21–39.

Before attending one of our private play parties, you must have completed both:

✨ A YBK Munch / approved in-person social

✨ YBK 101

YBK 101 thelps prepare newer attendees for their first party while also serving as a refresher on our private event rules, consent expectations, dungeon etiquette, and foundational BDSM information.
This class is taught by a YBK educator @xxStrawberryKiss , @Princess_Nina_ or @Mina_D0ll or another approved YBK Educator

We also have a New Class taught by @dear_scarlette called Play Party 101 if you need need more info and to be prepared for your first YBK Play Party!

If you're interested in becoming vetted, please review our:

👉 YBK Vetting & FAQ Information

Once fully vetted, you can be added to our mailing list for information about our private events.

Vetted members should also check our Private YBK Discord and fill out the current Dance Card to help connect with other attendees before the party.

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🎟️ Tickets & Guests

Only fully vetted YBK members may purchase tickets.

Every person attending the event must have their own paid ticket, including guests.

Having a guest does not mean one ticket covers two people.

Event links, location and ticket information are emailed directly to vetted attendees and eligible guests.

Information is never to be shared to parties that are not vetted or attending. Do not post info anywhere. This is a situation where you could be ban; as we value discreetness and privacy of our events and attendees.

If you are vetted and believe you should have received the ticket registration information and links but did not, please message the host.

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⛓️ What to Expect

Our private San Diego venue will include plenty of opportunities to socialize, negotiate, learn, watch, and play.

You are never required to play.

You are welcome to simply socialize, observe, meet people, ask questions, or enjoy the atmosphere.

Throughout the night, you'll have access to:

🖤 Dungeon play space

⛓️ BDSM furniture and equipment

🔥 Experienced community members

🎓 Educational opportunities

👀 Opportunities to watch negotiated scenes

🎯 Tasting experiences with volunteer Tops and Bottoms

💬 Social time to meet other members before play begins

Our Tasting Rooms are a great opportunity to experience or learn about a kinky activity in a shorter, structured setting with an experienced volunteer.

Participation is always optional and still requires communication, negotiation, and consent.

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🕯️ Party Schedule

8:00 PM — Doors Open + Social Hour

Check in, get settled, grab a drink, meet other attendees, and begin your negotiations.

9:00 PM — Mandatory Announcements + Party Rules

We will review consent expectations, dungeon etiquette, safety information, and important venue rules.

9:15 PM — Dungeon Opens

Let the play begin. 🖤

9:15 PM — Tasting Rooms Open

Volunteer Tops and Bottoms will begin offering short BDSM tasting experiences.

11:00 PM — Doors Close

Please plan to arrive before this time.

1:00 AM — Party Ends

All scenes must be completed and cleanup will begin.

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🍷 BYOB

This event is BYOB, but please drink responsibly.

Allowed beverages include things such as:

• Beer
• Wine
• Cider
• Seltzers
• Below 25 %ABV beverages only
• No mixed can drinks

No hard liquor.

We will also provide:

🥤 Soda
💧 Water
🍿 Light refreshments

Alcohol and BDSM require extra communication.

If you or your play partner have been drinking, that should always be discussed during negotiations. Intoxication can affect someone's ability to give meaningful consent, and our Dungeon Monitors and event staff may stop or decline play when safety becomes a concern.

Consent is always the priority.

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🖤 Consent + Community Expectations

Our parties operate under the same basic expectations as our munches, with additional dungeon and play-space rules.

Remember:

✨ Ask before touching anyone or their belongings.

✨ Watching a scene does not mean you may participate.

✨ Do not interrupt active scenes, only a DM will interrupt if there is a safety concern or unapproved Edge play, or rule reasons.

✨ Negotiate before play.

✨ Discuss limits, boundaries, aftercare, health concerns, alcohol use, and relevant risks.

✨ Consent can be withdrawn at any time.

✨ A previous "yes" does not mean ongoing consent or a "yes" for the party.

✨ Clothing, flirting, kink interests, relationship status, collars or previous play are never automatic consent.

✨ Respect privacy and confidentiality.

✨ No photos or recordings unless specifically permitted under event rules.

✨ Follow instructions from Dungeon Monitors, volunteers, and event staff.

Our goal is to create an environment where people can explore BDSM while still feeling respected, informed, and supported.

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🙋 Want to Volunteer?

YBK is always looking for community members who want to help make our events possible!

We regularly need:

🎧 DJs

🍹 Bartenders

🛡️ Dungeon Monitors

🚪 Door / Check-In Volunteers

🧹 Setup & Cleanup Volunteers

⛓️ Experienced Volunteer Tops for Demos/Tasters/Education

🖤 Experienced Volunteer Bottoms for Demos/Tasters/Education

Volunteer educators, Demo Tops and Bottoms DJs, DMs, and other community volunteers do NOT have to be between ages 21–39.

We value experienced members of the greater kink community who want to give back, educate, mentor, and help support the next generation of kinksters.

Message @Mina_D0llour volunteer coordinator if you're interested in volunteering or contributing to a future YBK event.

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🖤 Come curious. Come respectful. Come ready to communicate.

Whether you're looking forward to a negotiated scene, trying something new in our tasting rooms, reconnecting with friends, or simply enjoying the energy of the dungeon, we can't wait to welcome our vetted YBK community back for another night of exploration.

21–39 • Vetted Attendees Only • Private San Diego Venue • BDSM-Focused • Consent Always